Words And Emotions

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What’s the difference between the following sentences?

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“I’m heading out.”

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“I’m out!”

The difference is the kind of emotion each phrase has. But, the idea of leaving is expressed in each. Some phrases, like “I’m out!”, can have multiple meanings and emotions.

Let’s take a look at some other phrases that are similar in idea, yet very different in meaning.

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“I was shocked!”

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“I was surprised!”

While “shock” and “surprise” are often used interchangeably, “surprise” is often used to express something pleasant that we didn’t know about. While “shock” focuses mainly on negative things, or things we didn’t expect. For example, we would say “surprise party”, not “shock party”.

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“You didn’t have to!”

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“You didn’t need to.”

That someone “didn’t have to” do something is commonly mentioned out of politeness. But, if someone says that another “doesn’t need to” do something, that usually means they don’t feel comfortable accepting or being given the item or help.

Knowing the differences between the connotations of phrases is important for proper communication. Have you noticed any of these phrases in conversation or on TV?

Keep up the good work!

-You Are Learning English Team

A group of experienced and certified ESL and English as a Foreign Language teachers.